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Saturday, August 17, 2019

How Does Sex Change Over the Lifespan?

Sexual behavior changes over time as a reflection of
age, experience, and one's relationship.
And the trajectory of change may vary between men and women.
Women may encounter difficulties in navigating cultural attitudes about sexual behavior and promiscuity as they first explore their sexuality; age brings confidence and skill at communication that can enhance sex life.
Young men often have concerns about performance, penis size, or premature ejaculation
—and anxiety is no friend to performance for either men or women.
Men often experience challenges with arousal and erectile dysfunction as they age.
Couples tend to report that their sex life is most robust when they are in their 30s and 40s.
People can enjoy satisfying sex throughout the lifespan if they make adjustments for the many changes that time brings;
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Research has found that different people define sex

in radically different ways.

Fantasies about non-monogamy and BDSM show a rise and fall consistent with the life cycle of personality.

Keep in mind that we're dealing with general trends here and that there's always a great degree of individual variability.

The little blue tablet was found to increase the production of vital bone cells, preventing back pain and fractures in old age.

Biohacker Bryan Johnson has revealed he takes erectile dysfunction medications every day to extend his lifespan.

'It’s possible there may be an Ozempic effect. As men lose weight, their penises appear larger,'

Saturday, June 1, 2019

June is Mens Health Month.

Your penis can actually shrink as the years pass by.

Scientists from Jinan University, in China, analysed the teeth and sexual performance of 213,076 men.

Thankfully there are a few things you can do to try to halt the ravages of time down below:

1. Have more sex and masturbate more

Harvard Medical School experts say you've got to "use it or lose it".

“Some research suggests that when the penis is flaccid for long periods of time — and therefore deprived of a lot of oxygen-rich blood — the low oxygen level causes some muscle cells to lose their flexibility and gradually change into something akin to scar tissue," their report said.

2. Quit smoking

Smoking is responsible for a tonne of diseases and conditions. Cancer aside, it can also be responsible for shrinking your penis.

The chemicals from cig smoke can damage the blood vessels in the penis - stopping it from filling with blood.

3. Brush your teeth

Blokes who fail to brush their teeth twice a day are more likely to be a flop in bed, a recent study revealed.

They found guys with gum disease were 2.85-times more likely to suffer erectile dysfunction.

4. Keep cool

It's not just your todger that gets small with age; after 40, your testicles also start to shrink.

To slow their decline, try keeping them cool.

Wear boxers rather than briefs so you're getting more air up there and avoid very tight trousers which may restrict blood flow.

5. Lose weight

A bulging waist-line won't just put you more at risk of heart problems, diabetes, cancer and fatty liver disease.

Carrying extra padding can make your todger look smaller.

The penis is attached to the belly wall and when it expands, it pulls the penis inwards.

Lose weight and it'll drop back down. Now there's a weight loss incentive if ever we heard one.

Young People Are Having Less Sex Than Ever

We can't even blame coronavirus for this one

Friday, March 2, 2012

Male Orgasm The Perineum Massager The Future Of Male Masturbation.

One Step At A Time.

While most of us see sex as "fun time" (and it should be that, too!) and something we get to do when all our other obligations are satisfied, the evidence is mounting of several benefits of sex.

You might be justified in moving it from "when I can get to it" to "legit priority":

Happiness is priceless, right? When both men and women orgasm, oxytocin (a.k.a. the "love hormone") is released, which tends to lead to feelings often described as happiness. This free brain chemical calms anxiety and fear and increases trust and contentment. Positive interaction with friends and family increases the chemical somewhat, self-arousal even more so and sex with a partner you care about tops the list.

Having sex at least once or twice a week can boost immunity, according to a study by Wilkes University in Pennsylvania. "I'd rather have frequent sex than take cold medicine any day of the week," says Stefanie Iris Weiss, author of "Eco-Sex: Go Green Between the Sheets and Make Your Love Life Sustainable."

Guys who have regular sex have healthier hearts, or in science-speak, "Our research found that a low frequency of sexual activity predicted new cardiovascular events," Susan Hall, Ph.D., told Men's Health. It may also protect against prostate cancer, according to research done at the National Cancer Center.

"Sex reduces stress, so it's a great curative for those of us who are overworked and don't get enough sleep," says Weiss, who credits the oxytocin for this effect.

I encourage you to masturbate because orgasms have tremendous health benefits to body and mind. I believe that regular masturbation will produce certain emotional and physical health benefits. Its long been established that there are myriad of health benefits related to sexual activity. This awareness has been recorded in our culture for centuries in the form of old wives tales such as “Use it, or lose it.” Just as if you don’t use your common household appliances regularly, they will become rusty.

Masturbation is a freedom of expression that allows you to pleasure yourself on your own terms, can help you figure out how you feel about sex, allows you to explore your sexual fantasies and is an acceptable selfish act. You never need to make excuses about why you do it. It is a gift you have just for yourself.

Here are some Steps to Mindful Masturbation

Make sure you are in a comfortable and safe place where you can relax.
Close your eyes and empty your mind of worries.
Explore your Perineum With the Perineum Massager.
Maybe, Add some lube for a silkier sensation.
Let your fantasies run wild.

Focus your touch on the primary erogenous zone(Perineum).
Use the Perineum Massager for more direct stimulation.
Let yourself go and surrender your mind and body to orgasm.
Giving this precious gift of self-love and self-acceptance is key to living a healthy sexual life, whether you are single or in a relationship.

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Most men can ejaculate, and never reach an orgasm...
But it does`t have to be you...
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Our culture has some fucked-up ideas about what good sex is like. The woman is young and thin and looks like she carries a Photoshop filter in front of her; the man has a huge cock. After a little foreplay, featuring playing with breasts, some fingering, and probably some oral on both sides, the man has a hard erection; he penetrates the woman. She comes wildly and after no fewer than ten minutes or more than fifteen minutes he comes.
But the thing is that most women do not look like the women in magazines, and most men don’t have Magic Cocks capable of getting hard and orgasming on command...

Scientists warn of sperm count crisis
Biggest-ever study confirms drastic decline in male reproductive health
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And, of course, kissing can be a substitute for the male orgasm, have you thought of that...

Here are 14 scientific facts, benefits, and tips on the art of kissing.

Gonorrhea infections in the throat may be increasing and spread by kissing.

"There are not better sex products invented - PERIOD"

Restricting the oxygen flow causes a build of carbon dioxide. This increase in carbon dioxide brings about feelings of dizziness and pleasure which when accompanied by masturbation can heighten the sexual sensations.

Pornographic and/or other paraphilic material and/or sex toys are often present.

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No matter how many new things you try, it’s still the same body you’re having sex with all those years in - and your brain and body know it.
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the intimate act, anal sex, is more likely to result in an orgasm for men

Simple, Carefree Casual Sex? As If.

Remember when you were unattached and fancy free? It may never have happened. If you envy your single friends for all of the no-strings, fun sex they’re having, don’t bother. It’s not all as mindlessly meaningless as it seems, according to biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, PhD.

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